Izinsights ezikhethekile namagunya ekukhulumeni phambi kwabantu, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu, kanye nokusetha amagoli
Indlela ehlukile kaVinh Giang yokukhuluma okunomthelela ihlanganisa ethos, pathos, kanye ne-logos ukuze ibambe ababukeli, iguqula ababukeli abaphumuli babe ngababambiqhaza ngokusebenzisa izindaba ezisebenzisanayo kanye nohlu lwezihlekiso oluphumelelayo.
Ukukhuluma emphakathini kuyisitayela esidinga ukuzethemba, ukuveza kahle, nokuxhumana. Thola izizathu ezivamile zokuthi kungani ukukhuluma kungaphumeleli nokuthi ungakwenza kanjani ukuthumela kwakho kube yinto ethokozisayo.
UVinh Giang, okokuqala engumkhulumeli ongenamsebenzi, ushintshe umsebenzi wakhe wokukhuluma emphakathini esebenzisa umshini wokukhiqiza amagama ongejwayelekile njengensiza yokuzilolonga ehlukile. Le ndlela yamvumela ukuba ahlanganise ukudala nokungazelelwe ezinkulumweni zakhe, ekhuphula ukuzethemba kwakhe nokuxhumana nababukeli.
I-imposter syndrome ingavimbela ukukhula komuntu siqu kanye nokusebenza, kodwa ukuqonda le ngxaki yangaphakathi kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuyinqoba. U-Mel Robbins unikeza amacebo asebenzayo ukuze abuyise ukuzethemba ngokuphikisa ukungabaza nokwamukela ubuthakathaka.
Thola ukuthi uVinh Giang uthuthukisa kanjani ukukhuluma public ngobuchwepheshe obusha obwandisa ukuzibandakanya kwababukeli kanye nokusebenza komkhulumeli.
EkuKhulumeni Kwamanye, imizuzu yokuqala ingenza noma iphule isethulo. UVinh Giang, umkhulumeli owaziwayo, uphumelele ekwenzeni izinyathelo ezinhle ezibandakanya izithameli kusukela ekuqaleni ngokusebenzisa imikhuba yokuzwakalisa imizwa, izindaba, nezinsiza zokukhuluma ezihlelwe kahle.
Ekukhulumeni emphakathini nasezingxoxweni ezingahleliwe, ikhono lokuchaza imicabango ngokungahleliwe libalulekile. Abaningi bahlushwa ukwesaba ezimweni zokukhuluma ezingalindelekile, kodwa amasu avela ekuhlekiseni angaguqula le nselelo ibe yikhono.
Endaweni egcwele yokukhuthaza imvelo, izinkulumo eziningi zezokuhlala azikwazi ukuheha ushintsho ngenxa yokuthembela kwazo ezibalo nasemiphumeleni. Ukushintsha kube indlela yokuxoxa izindaba kungadala ukuxhumana kwemizwa okukhuthaza izithameli ukuba zenze isenzo.
Ukukhuluma emphakathini kusekelwe ekulinganiseni kwesakhiwo, imizwa, nokubandakanywa, njengokwakhiwa kahle kwesigwebo. ULes Brown ubonisa lokhu ngokuxoxa izindaba ezithokozisayo ezithokozisa ababukeli.