Izinsights ezikhethekile namagunya ekukhulumeni phambi kwabantu, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu, kanye nokusetha amagoli
EkuKhulumeni Kwamanye, imizuzu yokuqala ingenza noma iphule isethulo. UVinh Giang, umkhulumeli owaziwayo, uphumelele ekwenzeni izinyathelo ezinhle ezibandakanya izithameli kusukela ekuqaleni ngokusebenzisa imikhuba yokuzwakalisa imizwa, izindaba, nezinsiza zokukhuluma ezihlelwe kahle.
Ekukhulumeni emphakathini nasezingxoxweni ezingahleliwe, ikhono lokuchaza imicabango ngokungahleliwe libalulekile. Abaningi bahlushwa ukwesaba ezimweni zokukhuluma ezingalindelekile, kodwa amasu avela ekuhlekiseni angaguqula le nselelo ibe yikhono.
Endaweni egcwele yokukhuthaza imvelo, izinkulumo eziningi zezokuhlala azikwazi ukuheha ushintsho ngenxa yokuthembela kwazo ezibalo nasemiphumeleni. Ukushintsha kube indlela yokuxoxa izindaba kungadala ukuxhumana kwemizwa okukhuthaza izithameli ukuba zenze isenzo.
Ukukhuluma emphakathini kusekelwe ekulinganiseni kwesakhiwo, imizwa, nokubandakanywa, njengokwakhiwa kahle kwesigwebo. ULes Brown ubonisa lokhu ngokuxoxa izindaba ezithokozisayo ezithokozisa ababukeli.
Ukuthukuthelela esigcawini kuyinto evamile, kuthinta wonke umuntu kusukela kubakhulumeli bezinsuku zonke kuya kubadumile njengeZendaya. Ukuqonda imvelaphi yalo nokufunda amasu kungasiza ukuguqula le ngxabano ibe yizinkanyezi ezinhle.
Ukukhathazeka kwesigcawu kuthinta abaningi abaculi futhi kungaphazamisa ukuzethemba. Le ndatshana ihlola ukuthi kanjani ama-rhythm omculi uVinh Giang angasiza ekunciphiseni ukukhathazeka kokusebenza, inikeza amasu nolwazi lokwethula ngempumelelo.
Ukukhuluma public kuyisaba esivamile esingavimba ukukhula komuntu siqu kanye nezobuchwepheshe. Iqembu likaVinh Giang linikeza amasu ahlukile nokusekelwa ukusiza abantu baphumelele ezikhathazweni zabo zokukhuluma public ngokufunda okusebenzisanayo nokusekelwa kwabanye.
Wonke umkhulumeli womphakathi uzwe le ngxube yokukhathazeka nokujabula. Kodwa yini uma ngithi ukukwamukela lokhu kungabi nezinselelo kungaba yinsiza yakho eysecret?
Thola amasu abalulekile okuthola ukunakwa kwabantu bakho nokuletha izethulo ezikhumbulekayo. Funda kumasu kaVinh Giang mayelana nokuxoxa izindaba, izithombe ezibonakalayo, ulimi lomzimba, nokunye ukuze uthuthukise amakhono akho okukhuluma emphakathini.