
POV: Imicabango yakho empeleni iyavuma ngokuqondile
Uma ubhekana nobunzima bokuchaza imicabango yakho ngokucacile, awuwedwa! Funda ukuguqula imibono yakho ibe yinkulumo eqinile ngalezi zindlela ezisebenzayo.
Izinsights ezikhethekile namagunya ekukhulumeni phambi kwabantu, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu, kanye nokusetha amagoli
Uma ubhekana nobunzima bokuchaza imicabango yakho ngokucacile, awuwedwa! Funda ukuguqula imibono yakho ibe yinkulumo eqinile ngalezi zindlela ezisebenzayo.
Ngithole indlela enamandla yokuxhumana evela ku-CEO we-Fortune 500 eyashintsha indlela engiveza ngayo imicabango yami ngokushesha. Kuqondene nokuhlanganiswa kwamagama ngokushesha ukuze kuthuthukiswe ukuveza kahle nokuzethemba ezinkulumweni.
Indaba yomuntu siqu yokunqoba ukukhuluma okuphazamisekile ngokusebenzisa izindlela zokukhuluma ezikreative ezihilela izinselelo zamagama angahleliwe. Ikhombisa izinselelo kanye nempumelelo yokunqoba izithiyo zokuxhumana, igcizelela ukubaluleka kokuphindaphinda nokwamukela umuntu.
Ngibeke phambili isivivinyo esijabulisayo esingamahora angu-30 ukuze ngithuthukise amakhono ami okukhuluma emphakathini, futhi imiphumela ibingathandeki! Kusukela ekubandeni phakathi komusho kuya ekuxhumaneni ngokuzethemba nabanye, nansi indlela engiyithole ngayo ukuxhumana kwami phakathi kwekhanda nomlomo.
Le misebenzi iguqule amakhono ami okukhuluma futhi yakhuphula ukuzethemba kwami ngokusebenzisa imisebenzi yokucabanga-nomlomo ejabulisayo.
Indlela yokukhuluma ecacile iyashintsha ukuxhumana ngokugxila ekucaciseni kwengqondo ngaphambi kokukhuluma. Iphakamisa izindawo eziningi zengqondo, ithuthukisa ukusebenza kwengqondo nokuzethemba ekukhulumeni emphakathini. Thola izinyathelo ezilula zokuzilolonga ekukhulumeni okucacile futhi ujoyine umkhuba ophumelele iTikTok!
Ukukhathazeka kokukhuluma bekuyiqiniso lami, kodwa i-pause elula yemizuzwana emithathu yangisiza ngashintsha ukuxhumana kwami. Le ndatshana ihlanganyela uhambo lwami namathiphu okwamukela ama-pause engxoxweni ukuze kube nokuxhumana okujulile.
Funda ukuthi ungawaguqula kanjani ama-silence angakhululekile abe yizikhathi zokukhuluma ezinethemba futhi uthole amandla ezikhala zokuxhumana kahle.
Ukuvula amandla akho omlingiswa omkhulu akukhona nje ngokuqhakazile; kukhuluma ngokufunda ukuveza imicabango yakho ngokucacile. Le mhlahlandlela inikeza amathiphu asebenzayo okuthuthukisa amakhono akho okuxhumana nokwandisa ukuzethemba kwakho.