Ngithole indlela enamandla yokuxhumana evela ku-CEO we-Fortune 500 eyashintsha indlela engiveza ngayo imicabango yami ngokushesha. Kuqondene nokuhlanganiswa kwamagama ngokushesha ukuze kuthuthukiswe ukuveza kahle nokuzethemba ezinkulumweni.
Ukuxhumana Okuguqulayo Engikufundile KoMphakathi Wezimali
Bantfu, ngizokhuluma ngento eyashintsha impilo yami ngempela. Ngabe ngihamba ku-LinkedIn (njengoba umuntu enza ngalesi sikhathi sokuphumula 😅), lapho ngithola khona le posi edumile evela kumphakathi ophakeme odlalayo okufanele ngithi ngivele ngabona imiphumela.
Indlela Yokuthi "Cabanga Ngokushesha, Khuluma Ngokuhlakanipha"
Nansi indaba - lo mphakathi wembula ukuthi imfihlo yokuxhumana kahle kweqiniso akukhona ukujonga amazwi anemincintiswano noma ukucela izinkulumo zakho phambi komirror. Kunendlela yokufundisa ubuchopho bakho ukuthi buxhumanise imigomo namazwi ngokushesha kunokukhathazeka kwakho kungena. Umqondo. Ujule. 🤯
Kungani Abantu Abaninzi Beqhubeka Nokubhekana Nezinkinga Zokuxhumana
Masibheke kahle kwesikhashana. Sonke besilapho:
- Ubufakazi bakho buyacima ngesikhathi semihlangano ebalulekile
- Ukhuluma kakhulu uma ukhathazekile
- Awukwazi ukuthola amazwi alungile uma ubekwe endaweni
- Unqanda ukufana okwakusho phakathi kokuphendula
Akukhona ngenxa yokuthi awunalo ulwazi olwanele. Kungoba kunephuzu elibe yinkinga phakathi kwemigomo yakho namandla akho okubafakazela ngokushesha.
Umsebenzi Oshintsha Impilo Okusebenza Ngempela
Ngakho nansi lapho kuqala khona ukuthakazelela. Lo mphakathi uhlola okuthiwa "ukuxhumana kwamazwi ngokushesha" njalo ekuseni. Ngizame lokhu esikhathini esingangenyanga edlule, futhi umngane, imiphumela iyakhathaza.
Uqala ngokusebenzisa amazwi angavela ngamazwi amahle bese uphoqa ukuthi ukhulume ngaleso sikhathi - akukho hazırlık, akukho ukungabaza. Ngithole lokhu kuhle generator yamazwi angavela okwenza ukufundisa le ndlela kube lula kakhulu.
Inqubo Ezi-3 Esebenzile
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Thola Igama Lakho Elivela: Sebenzisa igenerator ukuthola igama - kungaba yini ukusuka ku-"butterfly" kuya ku-"skyscraper"
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Ukhulumisanisa Ngokushesha: Ngesikhathi uqala ukubona igama, qala ukukhuluma ngalo isikhathi esingama-30 sekhondi
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Akukho Ukucabanga: Ungakwazi ukuzithiba - vele uvumele amazwi aphume, noma uma engazwakali kahle ekuqaleni
Kungani Lokhu Kuvela Kuqhakaza (Ingxenye Yesayensi)
Uma uthola ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokuhlelwa, ngempela:
- Uwakha izindlela zocingo phakathi kwemigomo nokukhuluma
- Uthuthukisa ukwesaba kwakho kokubekwa endaweni
- Ufundisa ubuchopho bakho ukufinyelela amazwi ngokushesha
- Ukhula ukuzethemba ezikhulumweni zakho eziyimpumelelo
Ukukhuluma Ngempela: Okuhlangenwe Nakho Kwami
Isikhathi sokuqala engikuzame lokhu? Uqhekeze. Ngathola igama elithi "lighthouse" futhi ngangisodwa njengesithombe: 👁👄👁
Kodwa, ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbili zokuqeqesha nsuku zonke? Umdlalisa wami wawusebenza kahle. Ama-TikTok wami aqhuba kahle, izethulo zami zomsebenzi zaba zicacile, futhi ngisho ngathumelela izinkanyezi zomshado wakadadewethu (okwakuvame ukuqopha iziqhamo).
Izinzuzo Ezingalindelekile Ongazithola
Kusukela ngiqala lo msebenzi, ngiqaphele:
- Ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka ngaphambi kokuxhumana okubalulekile
- Ukuphucula ikhono lokuchaza imicabango eyinkimbinkimbi
- Ukukhulisa ukuxhumana kwezindaba okujabulisayo kokuqukethwe kwami
- Ukwanda kokuzethemba ezimweni zomphakathi
- Ukucabanga ngokushesha ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwemisebenzi
Iziqondiso Zezinkanyezi Zempumelelo
- Imigomo Yekuseni: Yenza lo msebenzi okokuqala - ubuchopho bakho busebenza kahle ngalesi sikhathi
- Bhalisela Uself: Kubuhlungu kodwa kubalulekile ukuze uthuthukise
- Phakamisa Umsebenzi: Qala ngama-30 sekhondi, bese uhla phansi ufinyelela ku-1-2 imizuzu
- Hlanganisa: Sebenzisa izinhlobo ezahlukene zamazwi - imizwa, izinto, imibono engamanga
- Naka Ngokuqhubekayo: Yenza kube yijika eliyimpumelelo, ngisho noma kuthatha imizuzu emihlanu
Umphumela Osebenzayo
Zizwe, ngiyazi ukuthi kukhona upstairs ukukhiqiza. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, izixazululo ezinamandla kakhulu yilezo ezilula. Lo mphakathi wezimali akatholanga lapho engakwenzi ngokungathandwa izinto.
Imfihlo yokuxhumana kahle akukhona ukuphumelela - kodwa ukuyilungiselela. Ngokufundisa ubuchopho bakho ukukhuluma ngendlela eyidumile ezimeni ezahlukene, wakhe izingqinamba zengqondo ezidingekayo ukuze uthuthukise ukukhuluma okucacile, okuhehayo kokukhuluma.
Ngakho, usukulungele ukwakha umkhankaso wakho wokuxhumana? Ngiyazi, uzothokozisa isizukulwane sakho sekuza ngokwakha le ndlela namuhla. Futhi khumbula, wonke umuntu uqala endaweni ethile - ngisho nemibono ephumelelayo yethule elivame ukuba nethuba lokufuna izwi labo.
Ungakhohlwa ukugcina le posi ukuze ibuyekeze kamuva, futhi ubeke amazwi uma uzama le ndlela! Ake sikhule ndawonye, bomndeni! 💪✨
