Imbono ezikhethekileyo kunye neeZikhumbuzo zekujoliswa esidlangaleni, ukuthuthukiswa komntu, kunye nemigomo yokwakha
Uhlanga olucacileyo lokuthetha aluyonto nje; yindlela yobugcisa ethuthukisa isitayela sakho sokunxibelelana ukuze ubonise ukholo nokucaciswa. Fumanisa indlela yokuyeka amagama angaphezulu kwaye uthathe indlela yokuthetha ehlaziyiweyo ebonisa ubunkokheli ngelixa uhlala uqinisekile.
Emva kokuba ndibhekiselele kumjikelo wokungasebenzisi igama elingaphezulu 'njengoko' kwiiyure eziyi-24, ndafumanisa umphumo omkhulu obekho kwi unxibelelwano lwam, ukuzithemba, kunye nekhwalithi yokuqukethwe. Nceda ujoyine kum njengoko ndabelana ngohambo lwam lokutshintsha kunye neengcebiso zokuthetha ngokucacileyo.
Emva kokufumanisa ukuba ndisebenzisa iifiller ezininzi kwiintetho zam, ndathatha umngeni wokujonga nokunciphisa zona. Le ndlela ibalulekileyo yaphucula kakhulu ukuthetha kwam phambi kwabantu kunye nokuzithemba!
Fumanisa indlela yokunciphisa amagama akho angaphezulu kwi sikhumbuzo sakho kwaye uphucule izakhono zakho zokwenza umxholo. Funda uhambo lwam oluvela ekusetyenziseni amagama amaninzi ukuya ekuboniseni imiyalezo eqinisekileyo necacileyo.
Funda indlela yokukhupha amagama okugcwalisa kwiintetho zakho kwaye uphucule ukuzithemba kwakho xa uvelisa, nokuba kwiividiyo okanye ubuso nobuso.
Ukuba neengxelo ezicacileyo akukhange kube kukukhanya; kukucaciswa, ukwazisa, kunye nokuzithemba. Nantsi indlela yokuphumeza ubuncinane bokuba ungumntu ophakathi kokungathethi amagama alungileyo emihlanganweni.
Ngaguquka ndibe ngumntu ongenakukwazi ukuhlanganisa amagama amathathu ngaphandle kokuthi 'njengoba' ndibe ngumkhulumeli ozithembeleyo othetha ngempela njengoko efana nokwazi okukhuluma ngakho.
Funda amagama abalulekileyo okufanele uwagweme kwiimeko zeshishini kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana ngokuzithemba nangobuchule. Phakamisa ilizwi lakho ukuze uphumelele kwiimeko zeshishini!
Guqula izakhono zakho zokukhuluma kwiiveki eziyi-1 ngalo mjikelo omnandi nowonwabisayo owenziwe ukunceda ukulwa neengcinga ezithambileyo kunye nokwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Ukusuka kwiimfuno zamagama angalindelekanga ukuya kwiingxelo ezinemvakalelo, funda indlela yokuziveza ngokucacileyo nangobuchule!