
POV: Imicabango yakho iyavuma ngempela phambi kwabantu
Ukuba ubhekene nobunzima bokuchaza imicabango yakho ngokucacile, awuwedwa! Funda ukuguqula imibono yakho ibe ukukhuluma okuqinisekile ngalezi zindlela ezisebenzayo.
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Ukuba ubhekene nobunzima bokuchaza imicabango yakho ngokucacile, awuwedwa! Funda ukuguqula imibono yakho ibe ukukhuluma okuqinisekile ngalezi zindlela ezisebenzayo.
Ndafumanisa indlela enamandla yokuxhumana evela kumphathiswa we-Fortune 500 eyaguqula indlela endikhuluma ngayo iingcinga zam ngexesha lokukhuluma. Kukho konke malunga nokuhambelana kwamagama ngokukhawuleza ukuze kuthuthukiswe ukucaciswa nokuzithemba kwiingxoxo.
Ibali lomntu ophumelele ukulawula intetho ehlukeneyo ngokusebenzisa iindlela zokuthetha ezikrelekrele ezibandakanya imingeni yamagama angalindelekanga. Iqulethe iimpazamo kunye nempumelelo yokunqoba iingxaki zokunxibelelana, igxininisa ukubaluleka kokuphindaphinda kunye nokwamkela ukuzazi.
Ndazifaka kwi-experiment eyahlukeneyo iminyaka emininzi ukuze ndiphucule izakhono zam zokukhuluma phambi kwabantu, kwaye iziphumo zazimangalisa! Ukusuka ekujoleni phakathi komlomo ukuya ekuxhumaneni ngokuzithemba nabanye, nantsi indlela endaphosa ngayo ukuxhumana kwam phakathi komlomo.
Le msebenzi iguqule izakhono zam zokuthetha kwaye yandise ukuzithemba kwam ngokuqhuba imisebenzi emnandi yeengqondo neenkanuko.
Indlela yokukhuluma ecacileyo iguqula unxibelelwano ngokugxininisa kumacala engqondo ngaphambi kokukhuluma. Isebenza kwiindawo ezininzi zengqondo, ikhulisa ukusebenza kwengqondo kunye nokuzithemba ekukhulumeni phambi kwabantu. Fumanisa iindlela ezilula zokuzilolonga ukukhuluma ngokucacileyo kwaye ujoyine umkhwa ophumelele kwiTikTok!
Uxinzelelo lokukhuluma lwaluyinyani yam, kodwa i-pause elula ye-3-seconds yandishintshile indlela endikhuluma ngayo. Le ndatshana ibonisa uhambo lwam kunye neengcebiso zokwamkela iipause kwiingxoxo ukuze kufumaneke uxhano olunzulu.
Funda indlela yokuguqula iindawo ezithule ezinzima zibe yimixholo yokukhuluma enokholo kwaye ufumane amandla okuhamba phambili kwiingxoxo ezisebenzayo.
Ukukhulula amandla akho omlingani akukhange kube kukhangeleli; kukufunda ukuveza iingcinga zakho ngokucacileyo. Le mikhombandlela inika iingcebiso ezisebenzayo zokuphucula izakhono zakho zokunxibelelana kunye nokwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho.