Kukhala wodziwa kulankhula si chinthu chofunika; ndi za kuchita bwino, kudalirika, ndi chikhulupiriro. Izi ndi momwe mungapite mu nkhondo ya kukhala yekha mu msonkhano popanda mawu a filler.
Dziŵitso Limene Liri Nkhani Pa Kuwa Mwachilungamo M'misangano
Kodi mwakhala mukukumbukira kuvuta kukhudza momwe mukukonzekera m’misangano pamene ena akuwonekera ngati akulimbikira? Ndimakupemphani, ndakhala kumeneko, ndipo ndi chithandizo komanso chimodzi chovuta. 💅
Phenomenon ya Maŵelo Owonjezera
Tiyeni tiwonetse chowonadi - kuona antchito anu akupereka zizindiko zawo ndi "um," "uh," ndi "kufunika" kungakhale ngati kuwonera DJ akudula, komabe sikuli nyimbo m'mitima yanu. Pambuyo pa maola ambiri apachaka ndikumvetsetsa mawu anga (kuphatikiza ndi chithandizo chachinsinsi - za izi ndikamba pambuyo), ndakhala munthu amene amafuna kupita m’misangano ngati butter pa toast yotentha.
Mphamvu ya Chiwonetsero Chachikulu Ili Nkhani
Yankhani ikhani: Mukugona m’misangano ya pa intaneti, kamera ikukhala bwino, kuwala kumakhala ndi mtima, ndipo BAM - mukupereka ch更新 yanu ndi kuonjezera kofanana ndi K-pop choreography. Pamene antchito anu akupanga makampani a "ums" omwe angayerekeze kuti akhale ndi maphunziro a sukulu ya apakati. 🎭
Chifukwa Chake N’chofunika
Tiyeni tiwulule - kukhala ohipa sichinachitike pokhala otetezeka. Zili zochita:
- Kupanga malingaliro anu kukhala osavuta kumvetsetsa
- Kumanga reputations m’dziko lanu la ntchito
- Kukhala inu nokha zokhazikika
- Kutsata ndandanda yanu
- Kudzionetsera (mwa njira yabwino kwambiri)
Mutu Watsopano: Mungapezeke Kuti Ndidzaye
Kodi mwakumbukira pamene ndinatchula chinsinsi? Iyi ndi nkhani - ndidapeza chida chabwino kwambiri chida cha kuyanjana mawu chomwe chinasintha momwe ndimakumana. Ndi ngati kukhala ndi katibu wanu amene akulemekezani maŵelo onse ndipo akuthandizani kukweza malingaliro anu. Nyumba zitha kukhala kukumbatirana kwanu kwa mawu, koma mwachikondi kwambiri.
Zotsatira Zosayembekezereka
Kukhala popanda maŵelo owonjezera kumabwera ndi zinthu zosanga:
- Anthu amaganiza kuti mukprepared mokwanira (ngakhale mutakwatidwa)
- Antchito amafunsa mawu okhudza kukula mawu
- Chikhumbo chanu chimakulira popanda kuchita kanthu
- Nthawi zina mukuona mukufuna kupatsa "um" kuti muwonetse ngati mukuyenera (khalani pamavi, bff!)
Zifukwa Zosavuta Zomwe Palibe Amankhula
Tiyeni tikhale 100 - pali nthawi pomwe kukhala ohipa kungathe kuwonetsa kuipa:
- Pamene munthu ananena "Pepani chifukwa cha ma um anga!" ndipo akuyang'ana pa inu mwaluso
- Pakati pa nkhani zodzaza kotala pomwe mawu abwino amakhala owawa
- Pamene ndinu oti simukugwiritsa ntchito maŵelo owonjezera ndipo anthu amaganiza kuti mukuwonetsa
Momwe Mungachitire Pamwambo
Chinsinsi ndicho kufufuza. Apa ndi momwe ndimayenda:
- Khalani odalirika ndi kuthandiza - pangani zipatso zanu pamene akukufunsani
- Khalani choona mu malo osamkhalira - kuganiza m’makhalidwe oyenera si chofunika nthawi zonse
- Yankha pa kuonenana osati kulingalira
- Kumbukirani kuti aliyense ali ndi njira yake yolankhulirana
Njira ya Kukula
Mukufuna kuungana ndi gulu la maŵelo opanda? Apa ndi njira yanga:
- Limbikitsani kukambirana (inde, ndi chisoni choyamba)
- Gwiritsani ntchito zida zomwe zimachotsa kutengedwa
- Kuphunzira mu zibwenzi zochepa
- Kukhala ndi chikhumbo chako mwachitatu
- Kuthokozani zokhudza njira zochepa
Kudzitsata m'Malo Osiyanasiyana
Zochitika ndi zochitika zimapanga njira zosiyanasiyana:
- Maphunziro achikondi: Limbikitsani kukhala otukuka
- Misangano yamtengo wapatali: Khalani otukuka mudzichotsa
- Nkhani za nthawi: Perekani luso lanu pang’ono
- Ma foni a pa intaneti: Limbikitsani kudziwa chifukwa maubwino amakhala okhazikika
Chikhalidwe Chiwiri Chomwe Chiyenera Kudziwika
Iyi ndi chinthu - kukhala ohipa sikuchita kupita. Ndi za kuyankhulana molimba. Nthawi zina, kutembenuka kumene kumakhudza kumatha kuposa ndalama kuti muthe kulembetsa maŵelo owonjezera. Koganizani ngati kuwonjezera m‘mabotolo anu ouma.
Dziŵitso la Kuchepa
Kumbukirani:
- Palibe amene amatha kulemberera maŵelo osathandiza
- Ndizokwedwa kukhala ndi masiku osafuna
- Cholinga ndi kukula, osati kupanga
- Mawu anu omwe mukugwiritsa ntchito amalimbana kuposa mawu abwino
ChTea Chats ☕
Kukhala munthu yemwe sakunena "um" m’misangano kungapangitse kuti mwaganizire, koma ndikukhala mfumu ikalatsidwa. Sikukwanira - ndikuchita mwachilungamo ndi mawu anu ndi kuchita mwamphamvu.
Choncho nthawi inanso mukamakhala m’misangano, mukugwira bwino ntchito yanu, kumbukirani - ndinu osanjikiza, ndinu abwino. Ndipo ngati wina akufunsa zanu lachilendo? Ndiye, tsopano mukudziwa chochoke. 💫
