Sichinthu chokhudza chovala cha akatswiri kapena mawu osangalatsa. Ndikofunika momwe mukupereka uthenga wanu ndi kukhulupirika kumeneko. Chotsani mawu osalimbikitsa kuti mukweze mawu anu.
Chinsinsi Chachikulu Chokhala Ndi Njira Yotchuka (Sichifukwa Chomwe Mulingalira)
Tikhale odziwika – tonse takhala momwemo pamisonkhano imeneyo m'mene wina amafuna kukumbatira malo ndi kukhalapo kwake. Mukudziwa mtunduwo: amavanikila ngati ali ndi moyo bwino, ndalama zake zili bwino, ndi chikhulupiriro chanu mwachikondi. Koma apa ndiponso mfundo: si chiyani chomwe chimakhala chovuta kapenanso malankhulidwe achikondi. Ndikofunika kwambiri momwe mumaperekera uthenga wanu.
Chikhalidwe Chopanda Mphamvu M'malankhulidwe Anu
Aliyense, ndili kutu kucitira chinthu chomwe chinasintha masewera anga onse. Iwo "ums," "likes," ndi "you knows" zophunzira zimene zomwe sizikumveka ndithudi ndi kuwononga mphamvu yanu. nthawi iliyonse mukayika mawu opanda ntchito, mukuphatikiza ku shopu yochititsa chidwi yokhala mu pyjamas – sizikukhala bwino.
Ndinakhala munthu amene sinkhungira mawu mopanda kutenga mawu atatu "um" ndi awiri "like." Zinali kutanthauza kuchuluka kwa mwana wa m'koleji imene imachita kwambiri m'maonekedwe m'malo mwa munthu wogwira ntchito. Koma zonse zinachitika pamene ndinayamba kutengera malankhulidwe anga ngati ndalama zanga – mawu aliyense amafunikira kupereka mtengo.
Zina Zogwira Ntchito Pang'ono
Choyamba, tikambirane pa nthawi. M'malo mogwira pafupipafupi ndi "um" kapena "uh," bvomerezeni nthawi yochitira chisomo. Ndi monga kusiyana pakati pa masamba odziwika bwino ndi kuthekera – nthawi zina kuchuluka sikukuthandizani. Mukamachita nthawi, simukugwira malingaliro anu; mukupatsanso mawu anu mphamvu.
Mfundo yayikulu: dinani nthawi yanu mukamalankhula. Ndinayamba kugwiritsa ntchito chida cha AI chomwe chimawonetsa mawu opanda ntchito mu nthawi yeniyeni, ndipo mwachilengedwe? Nkhanza yoyenera kuyankha ndikuyankhulana. Mungalotere chida ichi cha kuwonjezereka mawu opanda ntchito chizungulire bizinesi langa.
Mavidiyo Amabuku Othandiza Kukhulupirira
Nawa malangizo anu otembenuza ndi mphotho pamene mukufuna kukhala otchuka:
- Yambani Mphamvu: Sinthani "ndikuganiza" ndi "ndikukhulupirira" kapena "ndine ndi chikhulupiriro kuti"
- Tsatira Malo Anu: Nyanga (kapena kukhala) mwakutali, ndipo lalani kuchokera mu diaphragm
- Perekani Njira: Anthu ochuluka sizidzigwira – amakonda anthu kuchedwa anthu oyang'ana mawu awo
- Panga Maganizo Ochepa: Osangowapangiramo chomwe chikhala pa mitsempha
Mafunso a Maviliyoni a Dola
Pofika pa chitukuko ndiponso kutanuka, mawu achinsinsi akhalabe Pepa – sizikukutengera chabe kuteteza mawu opanda ntchito. Ndikopindulitsa kukumbatira chikhulupiriro chosholola icho chimachokera kukudziwa mtengo wanu. Pamene mukulankhula ndi cholinga, anthu amayenda moona. Amakufuna kudziwa zomwe mukufuna kutchula.
Kumbukirani: kodi mwawakumanye Elon Musk akulankhulira "like" pakuchita? Kapena mwadalira Oprah kukamba mawu? Ndikofanana. Amakonda luso la luso.
Chikondi Chokwanira
Kufuna kudziwa chinsinsi chomwe chinasintha moyo wanga? Pasanathe kulankhula kwachangu, ndichotsani mawu ndikuyika nkhani zanga zazikulu, kuyendetsa m'magulu a mawu, kuchitira zomwe ngakhale nayimba mayankho. Ndikofanana ndi kumanga mawu pamene mutandizira.
Kukhala Kwapachikidwa mu Chitani
Nawa zida zothandizira kukhulupirira kwanu:
- M'malo mo "maybe": "Ndimapanga"
- Sinthani "kind of": "mwachitsanzo"
- Sinthani "just": "mwachikondi"
- Sinthani "like": "monga"
Makhalidwe Ogwira Ntchito
Chinthu chimodzi choteteza? Ichi sichikha kukhala olo. Pochita usiku umene munawona zomwe mukuchita, pamene mulledchwera pakukhala. Kukhala malo kwambiri, anthu amafuna kukuchita chaka chonse. Mukunda zovuta zomwe zimasiyanitsa.
Ndapeza kuti malo aliwonse amagwira ntchito. Pochita zinthu zambiri anthu ambiri, maonekedwe akulu, chopita pa maphunziro chidwi, kudakhala kokhazikitsidwa. Izi ndi chinsinsi.
Tiwonetsetse Ripe Pofunika
Komabe, mwachita bwino osafuna kuwonjezera makalata. Cholinga chilichonse sichiyenera kukhala ngati mukupanga TED. Ndikofanana ndipo mwamuna pamasogolo, zolinga zanu zikhala zolemba zogwirira ntchito.
Ganizirani kapena uku. Muli poyang'ana kuti mukulephera kumwake; mukutsatira tsogolo. Ndi ngati chithunzi chofanana – zonse zili pa ntchito, ndipo palibe chimodzi choti chimachitira.
Mabatire a Pampa
Kumbukirani, kufuna kukhala otchuka si chopanda kuphimba. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi mawu a chisamaliro. Yambitsani, mwachitira chinthu chodyera kudzera pamavuto. Ogwira ntchito a mawu omwe amavuma kuyang'anila zinthu zomwe mukulankhula.
Ndiye, pa nthawi ina mumalankhula, kumbukirani: mukukhala m'khalidwe – mukukula chinthu chomwe mukukhala. Chotsani, bwanji. Nthawi iliyonse mukugwira zomwe mwasintha.
